S is for Soccer

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S is for Soccer #AtoZChallenge #AtoZChallenge2016

When I kicked off this series as part of the 2016 A to Z Challenge (which is taking a month longer to complete than it should), I mentioned in the opening post that Ethiopians love their soccer.

So when a kid comes up to you and asks you to play soccer, you play soccer. It doesn’t matter if you’re wearing your guard uniform or still working the front desk. If a kid asks you to play, you play. And that’s what happened one afternoon in the courtyard of our guesthouse. It was a pickup soccer game that I never thought I’d experience.

Soccer at the guest house #AtoZChallenge #AtoZChallenge2016
Manchester United FC

Of course Weldu’s friends love playing soccer. Several times a week, they’d play a pick-up game in a nearby alley in the shadow of some building construction. Two things I hope you notice…

    1. Note the scaffolding on the building in the background. It looks crazy, but I’m assuming it’s more sturdy than it looks to me.
    2. You see those two rocks stacked on top of each other? That’s one of the goalposts. The other is behind them.

Street Soccer Game in Addis #AtoZChallenge #AtoZChallenge2016
I didn’t grow up a soccer fan. I played one season in fourth or fifth grade (maybe sixth – I honestly don’t remember). I was not very good. And I never really showed much interest in the sport, other than the occasional World Cup game. That’s changed since Weldu has come home with us. It turns out both of us have a lot to learn. Playing an organized soccer game on an official pitch is quite different from the pickup games that he’s used to in Ethiopia. But that hasn’t dampened his passion for the game. He would eat, breathe, and sleep soccer if we’d let him. And he continues to hone his skills in anticipation of this Fall’s soccer season.

Weldu heading the ball in Addis

And me? I’m learning all the teams and terms and intricacies of the game that he loves. I’ve got a long way to go, but I know it’s worth it.

Because he is worth it.
Manchester United FC

Nesting and packing and nesting and packing

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"If the family were a container, it would be a nest, an enduring nest, loosely woven, expansive, and open." - Letty Cottin Pogrebin

If the statement that a family is a loosely woven and expansive nest, then it’s safe to say that our nest is about to get bigger. It’s already grown in our hearts, but things are about to get real. Real world real. Because that empty chair at our dinner table is finally about to be occupied. Forever.

Rumor has it he’s a pretty good soccer player. And he’s a big fan of Manchester United. So I’m trying to get the hang of it. I was never a very good soccer player. And I haven’t really been much of a fan.

But I am now.

Because he is. That’s kind of how the game is played. So I’m learning about soccer  football. We’re also learning how to be fans of Manchester United. It’s a whole new world in the Todd household, y’all.

There is a sudden flurry of activity in our house. In the midst of our busy school and work schedules, we're trying to put the final touches on this house, making room for one more person. So you could say that we're in full-on nesting mode, helping this family container of ours expand some more.

Fortunately, his side of the Boys' bedroom is ready. Chalkboard and all.

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But we're not just nesting. We're packing, too. So we're kind of in this weird state of cleaning and rearranging a bunch of things while also pulling stuff out to pack. Fortunately, I didn't really fully unpack from my trip a month ago. But now there's two more people flying out with me and one more coming back with us.

So we're nesting. And packing. And nesting. And packing. And waiting. And getting ready. And nesting. And packing.

Because soon this journey to bringing Weldu home will come to an end.

And the real journey will begin.

Soccer Time!

The kids started their soccer season this year.  Aly is old enough to play this year and she’s on the same team as Aiden.  That’s a very good thing.  They weren’t on the field at the same time, but that will happen soon, I think.  Here are a few pictures from opening day.  If you have a fee Saturday during the next two months, you should come watch them play.  It’s definitely worth the price of admission (which happens to be free)!


Aly on the field for the first time.  Look at that intensity in her eyes.  She definitely has her game face on.


Aiden on a breakaway for a goal.


Goooaaallll!!  Yes, he does a little celebration dance after every goal.  I’ll do my best to get it on video before he’s penalized for unsportsmanlike conduct or something.  Or take away one of his stars.  That would be the ultimate punishment.


Aly looks like a soccer player in these pictures, doesn’t she?  She spent almost as much time kicking the ball as she did helping her opponents up off the ground.  I’ve never seen her try to help other people as much in my life!  She must have been trying to earn the “Christ-likeness” star today.  And yes, that’s the star she wound up getting today.


Aly eventually got bored – as most kids do.  She decided to play the final minutes of the game as a cheetah.  The amazing thing is that another girl decided to join her!